THe farm is getting green. Weather warmer. Geese are laying, chicken and ducks are busy. I love this time of year when things come to life. But todays blog isn't about the farm so much as being about current situation with my husband.
Elmer was hospitalized for a few days last week to get hydrated as well as getting a stomach feeding tube put in. His oncologist said there is nothing more they can do for him as he's too weak for more invasive or aggressive treatments. We were sent home Saturday and hospice stepped in that same day. They are making him comfortable, meeting all his care needs.
So this is where we are. He is in a good head and heart space. Not depressed or angry or any of that. Our children are spending a lot of time with him. We all know he will soon leave us. So farm wise, other than feeding and watering, I'm keeping my outside time to just whats needed. I wont worry about the things that can wait. My time is spent caring for Elmers needs. He is enjoying the visits with the kids and grandkids. He has good moments and not so good moments. He wont be able to finish the chicken coop. This is not a road we hoped to ever have to take. But its a road we must.
Elmer was hospitalized for a few days last week to get hydrated as well as getting a stomach feeding tube put in. His oncologist said there is nothing more they can do for him as he's too weak for more invasive or aggressive treatments. We were sent home Saturday and hospice stepped in that same day. They are making him comfortable, meeting all his care needs.
So this is where we are. He is in a good head and heart space. Not depressed or angry or any of that. Our children are spending a lot of time with him. We all know he will soon leave us. So farm wise, other than feeding and watering, I'm keeping my outside time to just whats needed. I wont worry about the things that can wait. My time is spent caring for Elmers needs. He is enjoying the visits with the kids and grandkids. He has good moments and not so good moments. He wont be able to finish the chicken coop. This is not a road we hoped to ever have to take. But its a road we must.